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Hello, ESSENCE.com is collecting commentary on the dating scene from Black women of all ages. We are looking for a 100 word recap on how you are going about meeting guys in 2009, your secrets to success (first date ritual?), any pet peeves with going out and you overall views on dating today. Feel free to include any specific great experiences, or definite no-no’s you have encountered. Pleas...